A dozen roses, romantic dinners, love notes? We girls love all of these things but these are really not the things we need the most from you. Girls are more driven by non-tangible things – they want to know how you feel, they want to connect with your heart, they desire security and trust. What they really need is a simple (1)“Good morning” text from you – a simple reminder that you remember her every time you wake up. (2)Your replies, no matter how busy you are, this act shows how important she is to you – it doesn’t matter how fast or slow, as long as you respond to her messages.(3) Your compliments, because she needs to know you think she is beautiful. Deep at the core of every girl is the desire to know that she is beautiful, valuable and worthy to be pursued. (4)Your honesty, be a man of your words. When you take the lead in an honest communication with your girlfriend, you help her guard her heart. (5)Your trust, never doubt her feelings towards you because she loves you more than your flaws. (Sabi pa nga: “Kung nahihirapan ka na pagkatiwalaan sya, pagkatiwalaan mo muna yung pagmamahal mo sa kanya.”) (6)Your presence, they don’t need expensive gifts because your presence is more than enough to fill the joy in her heart. (7) Your time, your hectic schedule is not a valid reason for you not to make time for her. Time is the most valuable asset you can give to someone because you can’t get it back after you spend it. So, use it wisely in your relationship. (8)Your comfort when she’s dealing with life challenges, more than her family and friends, she needs you to encourage her in times she’s in trouble. (9)Your “I love you” this may be simple but that’s the easiest way to put a smile on her face. (10)Your support, her passion and goals in life shouldn’t be taken for granted. Encourage and motivate her to achieve it. If she needs improvement, tell her, but never belittle her desires. (11)Your understanding, more than your ire, she needs a guy who’ll look at every situation with understanding. Who won’t let the demons of “what ifs” confused him, who won’t be deceived by all the negative things he has in mind, and who won’t get carried away by overthinking because it can kill the relationship. (12)Your acceptance, she’s not perfect, she has a lot of flaws, she makes mistakes but despite of all these things your acceptance is all what matters most. Let her be comfortable with you despite of all the weird things she does. (13)Your proud presence, she wants you to let the whole world know she is your girl and how much you love her. Taking her for granted in front of your friends crushed her feelings. (14)Your patience, be willing to wait for her even if she takes an hour dressing up, shopping, or taking the shower because true love is patient.
What a girl really needs from you is to feel loved, safe, seen, appreciated, and to feel like she can always count on you. So as much as possible, don’t ever make her feel unwanted. If you think you’re the only one who’s overthinking, Girls overthink the most. Learn to value her feelings too, not just your deep emotional thoughts.
What I’ve mentioned above are only some of the things you need to know, the rest is for you to find out as go through your relationship. Visit and follow my blog site @ marydelmitchcom.wordpress.com